Wanted to give an update on the R situation. He called me last night and apologized (several times) for not answering his phone when I called. He said he knew that I worried about him and that he should have answered. He promised to answer from now on and told me he didn’t want to lose me as a friend.
And the best part was he sounded calm. There have been times in the past when he’s been emotional about something and the panic makes it hard for him to speak. Last night he was completely in control.
I think we both feel much better.
Tracy Abell 
That is wonderful news.
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Isn’t it, though? I was so relieved when I hung up the phone.
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I’m glad he was honest with you and with himself. I feel much better, too. Thank you for telling us.
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He obviously did some thinking and sorted out in his mind that I wasn’t a threat. I knew you’d want to hear the update.
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That was a gift you deserved, Vinca. I’m so glad he realized it and was able to offer it.
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It sounds patronizing but I’m still going to say it: I was proud of him because that’s not his usual approach. I figured I was out like all the other people he’s lost over the years.
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I’m so glad!!!
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Me, too. For the time being, that situation is okay. 🙂
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That’s wonderful to hear, Tracy. I’m so glad you both feel better.
I am curious, in what ways does R let you help him?
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I’m sending you an email, Jennifer.
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That’s wonderful to hear, Tracy. I’m so glad you both feel better.
I am curious, in what ways does R let you help him?
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Well, that’s really nice! I’m so glad he recognizes the value of your friendship — happy weekend, Tracy!
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Friendship won out over anger and paranoia!! You have a good weekend, too.
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Whew! I’m glad to hear that.
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It was such a good phone call and I knew right away I had to write about it here so others could share my relief.
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I’m glad to hear it ended this way.
It makes everyone feel happier.
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Yes, I feel more relaxed today and I bet he’s less agitated, too.
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I’m just reading these threeI’m so glad to hear that he was okay and that everything was patched up in the end.
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So far, so good.
Hope you’re doing well and I wish you a wonderful weekend.
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So far, so good.
Hope you’re doing well and I wish you a wonderful weekend.
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Oh, good!
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Yes, I was quite relieved (and surprised) to get that phone call.
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This is so good to hear, Tracy! I’m very happy R made the effort and you can both move forward in a positive way.
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It meant a lot to me that after he calmed down, he remembered that I really do care about him and want him to be okay. He’s lost other friendships and I thought I was probably out now, too.
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